This morning, Nick and I really didn't want to get out of bed. But, at 7:30, we heard Rachel's door creak open and she walked into our room. This is actually a good time to wake up and I usually feel well rested, but I had woken up around 4 with Bradley when he couldn't find his cup and then I couldn't go back to sleep. Anyway, Rachel got in bed with us and we turned on some cartoons for her to watch so we could keep dozing. About 15 minutes later, we heard Bradley. He was awake and talking and calling my name every once in awhile. He's in his big boy bed, so he can get up if he wants and he could open his door if he wanted, but he always waits for us to open it for him. So, we're still dozing, kind of ignoring Bradley because we're feeling so lazy. (poor kid!) Finally, Rachel says, "mommy, Braddy's awake." I said, "I know, hun, why don't you go open his door for him, but don't talk to him since he might not be nice."
On most (but not all!) mornings, Bradley is very grumpy when he wakes up. It doesn't matter that he's called me or cried for me or anything...once I get to his door and open it and turn off his noisemaker, he is usually very ugly. He usually yells, "NO!" at me and sometimes he slams his door closed. I've learned that the best thing to do is: open his door, turn off the noisemaker, say, "hi baby", walk back out, don't make eye contact, and have a fresh juice cup and snack waiting in the den with one of his favorite tv shows on. I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's also called early morning survival. The last thing I want is a screaming kid when I'm still waking up. Besides, when he starts yelling and crying, he usually wakes up poor Rachel if she's still asleep, so I do everything I can to avoid this scenario. Amazingly, after Bradley finds his snack and juice, he is so pleasant and sweet and usually wants to cuddle...go figure!!
So, back to this morning...
Rachel opens Bradley's door and says in a sweet voice, "hey Braddy"
Bradley immediately yells, "NO!!"
Rachel (still in her sweet voice) "what's the matter? Are you out of juice?"
Bradley (yells again) "NO!!"
Rachel (still being sweet...the boy doesn't know how good he's got it!!) "do you want to go to papa and gege's house?"
Bradley ... silence, then the pitter patter of little feet as they race to our bedroom
Rachel follows behind... "Mommy, are we going to gege and papa's house today?"
Me "no, hun, we're not"
Rachel "Braddy, we're not going to gege's house today."
Bradley runs out of the room.
It was a funny little conversation to hear on the monitor and sweet Rachel was doing whatever she could to make Bradley get in a good mood. I thought it was funny and clever. The bottom line is, "beware of grumpy Bradley in the morning!"